A little girl was recently left behind at a Chuck E. Chesse in Maryland and her parents didn’t know until they saw her on the 11PM news that night. Her parents are separated and assumed that the other would take her. Apparently, things of this nature aren’t completely uncommon as people started to share their own stories of abandonment:
My older sister didn’t like being forced to walk me home from school my first day of kindergarten so she left me there. It was a teacher from the school next door where [I was supposed to meet her on the corner between the two schools] that helped me after everyone and all the buses had left. He eventually found my home phone number and called my sister and she STILL refused to come get me and sent my brother instead. She got grounded; I gained a lifetime of anxiety and fear of abandonment.
- lilyginny27
First day of new middle school. The boiler melts down. School is dismissed at mid-day. All the kids left. I was supposed to get a ride with my neighbor, apparently, but nobody told me that- or my neighbor. My older brother just walked home.
So I sat my ass down on the flagpole pedestal in front of the whole school… and cried. I wasn’t even that scared but I was confused and didn’t really know what to do with myself. So I bawled my little eyes out right in time for the news cameras to come along and catch it all and play it later for the evening news. Famous me in my brand new purple izod shirt and matching skirt.
Eventually someone found me, I can’t recall who or how long I was there. I guess when My Grama saw my brother was home and not me she came to find me.
- bnmc2005
One time I was in Toys R Us, there was a little girl who’d gotten separated from her parent. She took my hand and let me lead her up to the front of the store, no fussing at all, trusting me to help her. Scary thing is, she would have gone with anyone. Someone could have walked her out of the store and into their car and her family might never have seen her again.
- emeraldus
I feel like by the time I was 3, my parents had taught me to say my full name, and their full names, so that if something like this happened, I could at least tell the cops who to get ahold of. Isn’t that one of those safety things kids are drilled on?
- callmepatsy
I was always appalled at my old ass students who still didn’t know their full name, where they live, their own phone number, or never figured out that their parents’ names weren’t “mom” and “dad”. It’s like, goddamn son, why does no one in your house think it’s important for you to know???
And by “old”, I mean 11.
- xlickety_splitx
I got lost at a state fair when I was a little girl. Luckily, I have a twin sister and the person who found me saw her and asked my parents if they had another little girl. Yay my sister! <3
- drownanddive
my parents left me by the side of the highway in labrador. (and when i say highway, its only called that and looks more like a goat path) literally in the middle of nowhere. it was a 3 hours drive to the nearest town.
we were traveling with my brother, his friend, our two dogs. i was the quiet one. we stopped to have lunch and after i went to find a place to pee and when i came back the van was gone. i went farther than i normally would because i had a giant crush on my brothers friend and didn’t want him to accidentally see me peeing
my brothers friend noticed it first, after about 10 minutes. he went to ask me if he could borrow my walkman and there i wasn’t. my brother thought i was like playing a joke on them, and so it was a couple more minutes before they mentioned it to my parents.
i freaked out alot and then started marching down the road after them. and when they finally appeared i yelled at them. i was so mad. i clearly remember screaming “i could have been eaten by bears!!” my parents spent the rest of the summer trying to make it up to me. my brother and his friend made me a “glad you weren’t eaten by bears” card and its turned into a running joke with the family. that was.. like 15 years ago.
i watch my kid like a hawk when we go places, especially when we go in giant family groups. i never want her to know what that feels like.
- kira_snugz
My mother once forgot about me in sort of the opposite way - my dad had been staying home with me while she went to work, so when she had to take me to daycare she completely forgot that I was in the back and it was only halfway down the highway that I asked from the back seat, “Mum, where’re we goin’?”
I do recall getting lost in the supermarket once - I was only a few aisles away from my Mum, but I was so, so scared for the minute or so that it took for her to realise I wasn’t with her and to come back.
- spiegel11th
Something similar happened to me:
We were at a youth baseball field and my parents had driven separately and each thought the other had me when they left.
My dad said it was the worst day of his life. :(
The crazy part to me was this: I was a five year-old walking around crying and not a single adult stopped me and asked what was wrong. And I wasn’t in a private area of the park. There were adults and others walking all around me, getting ready to leave as the last game was finishing and it was near sundown. It was a 12 year old player to finally stop and ask me if I needed help. That’s the crazy part. Where the fuck were the adults? Why weren’t they asking a crying child what was wrong? Like…it blows my mind. Luckily, my family was involved with the league, so when I was taken to someone who ran the show, they immediately called my parents and drove me to my parents and the police car outside my house.
I remember that day so specifically, at least all the stuff at the park. Then I remember being in my parents’ arms and who cares about anything after that, right? Nothing like that kind of safety.
- snoozeen
Read the original news story: http://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/md-girl-3-left-behind-chuck-e-cheese-parents-find-appears-evening-news-report-article-1.1034509#ixzz1oSTyTbJE